Mars and Venus On a Date :

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sign she needs to focus on finding fulfillment through her
other relationships.
Needing a man for everything will ultimately sabotage a
relationship with him. No man can satisfy all of a woman’s
needs. He may think he can, but he can’t, and it is a big mistake
to expect him to. The pressure it eventually puts on him will
push him away.


Option Two: Give Him a Call

The second option is to give him a call. For many women
this approach has never worked, and as a result they just don’t
call. Some women continue to call, although it does not help
the relationship. They just assume that it wouldn’t have worked
anyway and move on. With an understanding of how men are
different, it is possible to call a man and have a great conversa-
tion, get the reassurance you may like to hear, and support the
unfolding of the relationship. To call a man after a date it can
be helpful to follow these guidelines.


SEVEN GUIDELINES FOR CALLING A MAN AFTER A


DATE



  1. Don’t Call If You Are Upset with Him


It is generally a mistake to call a man and be upset with him
for not calling. Many women do call and tell him how upset
they feel. When the man doesn’t get it, that’s the end of the
relationship. Unfortunately, this prevents the natural unfolding
and development of the relationship.


It is a mistake to call a man and be
upset with him for not calling.

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