it brings out the best in her and as a result she is attracted to
him. To the degree that a man makes a woman feel feminine,
then to that degree she is turned on by his unique talents, traits,
interests, or characteristics.
If a man doesn’t turn a woman on, it doesn’t
matter how funny, rich, or successful he is.What allows a man to bring out the best in a woman can be
summarized in one expression: masculine presence. When a
man clearly expresses this aspect of who he already is, a woman
is mysteriously attracted. She is most attracted to him when
he is confident, purposeful, and responsible. These three attrib-
utes make a woman feel more self-assured, receptive, and re-
sponsive to him.
With an awareness of these three attributes, a man can har-
ness his power to win a woman over and successfully progress
through the five stages of dating. With this new insight, he can
begin to understand why some dates work and others don’t.
With an awareness of this power within, he can begin to exer-
cise it on every date. As he gets stronger he will gain the ability
to know the right partner for him and sweep her off her feet.
THE FIRST ATTRIBUTE: CONFIDENCE
The first attribute that makes a man most attractive is confid-
ence. A woman can sense when a man is confident. She auto-
matically begins to relax and feel assured that she will get what
she needs. When a man does not feel confident, a woman be-
gins to worry. Her feminine side, which wants to relax and
receive, panics, and her masculine side rises up to protect her
and make sure she gets what she needs.
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