She needs time when she is not considering what everyone
else wants but when someone is considering her wishes.
She needs someone who understands what she likes and
makes a plan so that she doesn’t even have to think.
She needs someone to anticipate her needs, wants, and
wishes and to offer to help without her having to ask.
She needs someone to notice her, love her, and adore her.
She needs someone to miss her and desire her.
She needs to love freely and trust that she will be loved in
return.
She needs someone who cares about her well-being to under-
stand what she is going through and recognize the validity
of her feelings.
She needs someone she can confide in who is trustworthy
and will not turn on her or break her confidence by revealing
her secrets.
She needs someone who regards her as special.
She needs someone to help her in her life so she doesn’t feel
she is doing it all by herself.
She needs someone to feel passionate intimacy with.She not only needs these things but needs to have them ful-
filled by someone with whom she feels a natural chemistry on
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