ing and loving relationship end each time in disappointment.
By making this shift and feeling her needs for a man in a
healthy way, she opens a door for the right man to walk in. By
feeling her needs in a healthy way, she is able to appreciate
and to accept men much more.
Needing a man can be compared to any other healthy need.
For example, if you are a little hungry then you might like to
eat, but it is not a very big deal. When you are more hungry,
you want to eat and it tastes better. If you haven’t eaten in five
or six hours and you feel a healthy hunger, it is because you
need to eat. When you need to eat, the food tastes so very deli-
cious and satisfying.
Likewise, when a woman feels her healthy need for a man,
he can sense that she will be responsive, receptive, and self-
assured. This makes her best qualities shine. If he is the right
man for her, or at least closer to the right guy, then he will be
attracted to her. By clearly feeling her needs for a man, she
becomes a magnet capable of attracting the right man for her.
In Chapter 20, we will explore where she will find him.
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