To find your soul mate, make sure you go to places where
the people are definitely interested in things that you are not
interested in at all. If you don’t like to dance, then take dancing
lessons, go out dancing, or go to a dance competition. If you
don’t like to eat out, then start eating out more.
If you aren’t very religious,
start going to church.
Almost always in a marriage, one partner likes the evening
and the other likes the morning. To find your partner, change
your schedule occasionally. If you like to go to bed early, then
start going places at night. If you like to sleep late, then start
getting up and taking brisk morning walks. You will meet so
many more people. One of them may be your soul mate, or
one of them may introduce you to your soul mate.
If you don’t like sports, then start going to local games and
sporting activities. If you don’t like going to school, then take
a few classes at night. If you don’t like to read, start hanging
out at a bookstore or library. If you normally drive places, then
walk more if possible. If you bring your lunch to work, try
eating out occasionally. If you eat out a lot, try shopping at the
supermarket. If you eat a lot of junk food, try shopping at a
health-food store or green market.
If you don’t like to read very much, start
hanging out at a bookstore or library.
When you expand your territory in this way, your chances
of meeting your soul mate go up dramatically. With this new
insight, finding a partner who shares chemistry with you be-
comes a much easier task.
326 / JOHN GRAY, PH.D.