THE SECOND ELEMENT OF CHEMISTRY:
COMPLEMENTARY NEEDS
The second element is complementary needs. Soul mates basic-
ally have something that their partners need. When a man has
what a woman needs, then she feels chemistry. For men, it is
the other way around. When a woman needs what a man has
to offer, he feels chemistry. This mutual dependence creates
healthy emotional chemistry.
Emotional chemistry frees us from being limited by our un-
realistic pictures of what our ideal partner will look like or be
like. When a man is able to experience the thrill of feeling
needed by a woman, he is no longer caught in pictures and
expectations of what his ideal partner should look like. He is
released from judging her physical appearance when he enjoys
the pleasure of making little romantic gestures and feeling her
responses.
When a woman experiences a man treating her in a special
way, she is free from fixating on how her ideal partner should
look. By experiencing the chemistry that results from being
receptive to a man’s approach, she is free to follow her heart
and not get caught up in unrealistic expectations of perfection.
Places Where a Woman Needs a ManWith this insight, a woman can wisely look for her soul mate
in places where she would be most receptive and responsive
to what a man has to offer. If you need help setting up your
computer, then by going to a computer fair, where you actually
need what the men there have to offer, you may meet the man
for you. Particularly if you are not even interested in com-
puters, your chances increase even more.
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