If you need help setting up your computer,
then by going to a computer fair, you may
meet the right man.
By asking for directions when you are lost or on a trip, you
become more receptive to appreciating what a man can give
you. If you take a trail ride or go on an adventure tour, there
are many times when you would need a man’s help. By attend-
ing any class to learn something, you are creating the ideal
opportunity for a guy to be helpful. Attending any sporting
event that you know very little about makes you more receptive
to receiving a man’s help in understanding the game. Men love
to be experts. Whenever you go to places where a man’s expert-
ise can be helpful, there will be more chemistry.
By attending any class to learn something,
you are creating the ideal opportunity for
a guy to be helpful.
If she goes to a dance, a woman definitely needs and appre-
ciates a partner to dance with. When women dance with wo-
men, it puts a man out of a job. A man feels a greater risk of
being rejected when he doesn’t feel needed. Ideally, you can
go dancing with couples who are friends. With your girlfriend’s
permission, you can dance with your friend’s boyfriend or
husband. When an interested man sees that you are dancing
with a man you are not involved with, he will be encouraged
to ask you to dance. People naturally get on a train when it is
just about to leave. Likewise when a woman is already dancing
with someone it makes a man want to ask her to dance even
more.
328 / JOHN GRAY, PH.D.