explain that it is not yours. When she finds out you are avail-
able, she will be really thrilled. If you don’t know anyone with
a baby, then you can borrow someone’s dog and walk it at
different times in the park.
You can most effectively find a partner in places where wo-
men are dependent on you for a certain kind of support.
Whenever there is a crisis in the community, a fire, flood,
earthquake, storm, tornado, or hurricane, these are the best
times for you to go out, be of service, and find a wife.
When a man wears a uniform, it helps a woman feel her
chemistry. A uniform symbolizes that a man has a certain
purpose in which he is confident and responsible. When you
wear your uniform, it demonstrates that you are proud of what
you do and that you love your work. These are big pluses. On
your day off, whenever you can get away with it, you should
wear your uniform.
Women love a man in a uniform,
and a man should wear one whenever
he can get away with it.By putting himself in situations where he is needed by wo-
men, children, and the elderly, a man can bring out the best in
a woman. When she expresses a sense of grace and receptive-
ness in response to his efforts, he can feel the potential chem-
istry between them.
Sometimes he cannot feel the chemistry unless he first actu-
ally does something that stimulates a response in her. Her re-
sponse makes him feel that by providing for her needs, he can
get the trust, acceptance, and appreciation that he needs in
order to thrive in a relationship.
Likewise, when a man expresses a sense of confidence,
purposefulness, and responsibility in his actions, a woman
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