- In a restaurant, a woman should get up several times and
walk to the rest room so that a man has a chance to see her
and be interested. He should take the risk and get up to meet
her if he is interested. He can simply give her a card if he is
shy. - Make eye contact with the person you are interested in. A
woman can look away, talk to a friend, ask her to look, then
talk a little bit, look back, and smile. This gives a man a clear
message that she is interested. - Go to places where you like the way you look. If you like
wearing a bathing suit, then go to the beach. If you don’t,
don’t bother. Go where you feel most beautiful or handsome. - Wear a uniform occasionally, even when you are off duty.
It makes you more accessible to others. They feel they can
ask you a question or ask for your help in some manner. - Create opportunities to meet apart from the group you are
with. It can be very intimidating for a man to approach a
woman in a group of six women. If he is rejected, he knows
all six will be discussing him. - At a party, when a woman continues to move around, a
man has an easier time approaching her. Avoid getting stuck
on the couch. - People are always most comfortable talking and meeting
in kitchens. Hang out where the food is.
342 / JOHN GRAY, PH.D.