- If you like to dress up in a formal manner, then try wearing
more casual clothes. - If you are always very organized and plan out your free
time, make no plans and just follow your instincts. Some-
times we are so much in our heads, figuring out what to do,
that our gut instincts don’t have the opportunity to move
us toward our soul mate. - If you always go to places with friends, try going alone.
When we are alone, we tend to feel our need for support
more and are more receptive to meeting someone. Others
are more inclined to offer help and assistance when you are
alone. - If you have never ridden a horse or you don’t like horses,
it’s time to go for a ride. - If you don’t like to drive fast, go to a racetrack or an ama-
teur racing day. Quite often, when one soul mate likes to
drive fast, the other likes it slow and safe. - If you like to live in the lap of luxury, try going for a back-
packing trip in the wilderness and you may meet your soul
mate. You don’t have to go alone; there are all kinds of
groups that will support you. Go to a store that sells camping
equipment, and the staff will be able to give you the help
you need. - If you have never been to a garage sale, then this is the time
to start shopping. If you don’t go to sales, then your perfect
partner might wait until there is a sale before going shop-
ping. You may need a little more frugality in
350 / JOHN GRAY, PH.D.