feeling intimate with her. It helps him to feel connected to
her.
- Bob likes high-tech equipment, while Ava likes things simple
and old-fashioned. They both care a good deal about beauty
in their home. Shopping and remodeling for them can be
quite a challenge, but they end up with something much
more interesting.
- David is interested in new cars and Doris likes keeping
things for a long time. They both value getting the full benefit
out of something. He wants to make use of the latest cars
being developed and she wants to use what she has, so he
gets new cars and she keeps hers.
- Thelma is into the environmental movement and Jacob is
into his business. They both care about the world. He focuses
more on helping people in his work, while she helps people
by being an activist and writing letters to the government.
- Paul likes parties and gatherings; Anna likes to spend time
with a few friends at most. They both care about quality in-
teractions. It is just that a party brings out the best in Paul,
while an intimate gathering brings out the best in Anna.
They simply alternate so both get what they need. Over time,
she begins to like parties more and he grows to enjoy quieter
social activities as well.
- Jackson likes to travel and Martha likes to stay put in her
garden. They both value quality relaxation time. She wishes
sometimes that he would be more interested in
AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER / 363
