UNHEALTHY EMOTIONAL CHEMISTRY
When a man feels needed, the chemistry he experiences tends
to be healthy, but when a man is primarily motivated by the
possibility of getting his needs and wants satisfied, then the
chemistry he feels is not necessarily very healthy. If he is just
thinking about what he can get, then it is unhealthy. He may
be a little unhealthy, like having a cold or the flu, or he may
be really sick and need the help of a professional.
When chemistry is unhealthy, it doesn’t mean anything
about the ultimate potential of a relationship. When the prob-
lem is corrected, there may or may not be a potential for healthy
chemistry between two particular people.
When chemistry is unhealthy, if you are careful to follow
the stages of dating and don’t rush into intimacy, the unhealthy
chemistry will dissipate. During the five stages of getting to
know a partner, the unhealthy chemistry will lessen. If you
are in the right relationship, chemistry will return in a healthy
way. These are some warning signals of unhealthy chemistry
for men.
Warning Signals of Unhealthy Chemistry in Men
- He is attracted to wealthy women because he needs the
money or doesn’t want to work. - He falls in love with his nurse: His attraction needs to be
tested after he gets well. Only then can he know if he has
something to offer her other than his appreciation for taking
such good care of him. - He feels he needs a very attractive woman to prove to others
that he is a success.
AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER / 365