in turn makes him feel really good; it brings the best of him
out. The anticipation of more is very important to keep him
interested. If he feels completely satisfied, then there is no
distance for him to continue traveling to pursue her. Distance
not only makes the heart grow fonder but gives a man the
opportunity to pursue. Without movement and the opportunity
for more, a man can easily lose the interest necessary to move
through all five stages of dating.
Distance not only makes the heart grow fonder
but gives a man the opportunity to pursue.When a woman feels attracted to a man, her feelings are
very different. She gets excited because she anticipates that he
could make her happy, and that in turn makes her feel really
good. It brings the best out in her and makes her want to give
to him.
A woman becomes excited because she anticipates receiving
what she needs and then freely giving in return. A man be-
comes excited because he feels he can be successful in winning
her over. When she is happy, he takes credit. Her fulfillment
makes him most happy. His success in fulfilling her makes her
most happy.
UNLOCKING THE CAR DOOR
When women do not understand men, they easily make the
mistake of diffusing the attraction by continuing to give back,
instead of increasing the attraction by continuing to receive.
This tendency shows up most clearly when a man takes a wo-
man on a special date. When he picks her up, she is beautifully
dressed and looks great. He takes notice and tells her so. She
is pleased. He walks her to the passenger side
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