RespondingtotheSubject:Love
DianeArbusfeltthatloveinvolves
"peculiar,unfathomablecombinati
ofunderstandingandmisunderstan
ing,"
andshetookagreatmanypi
turesinanefforttocapturethisquali
Shewent
toa
bridal
fashionshowai
photographedgirlstryingonweddii
dressesfortheirfiancesandmothei
Shetookpicturesofablindcouple,
homosexualcouple,andapairof 6
year-oldidenticaltwinbrotherswl
saidtheyhadneverbeenseparated
dayintheirlives.Thenshefour
outaboutaNewJerseyhousewi
wholoved
animals
andwasparticula
devotedtoababymacaquemonk
named
Sam.MissArbus askedperm
siontophotographherathome,ai
thewomanagreed.
Thephotographs weremadewi
electronicflash—intentionallyplaci
closetothecameratocreateaveilii
reflectionandharshshadows.Bysii
ulatingamateursnapshots,shehopi
tocatchaflavorof"totalordinariness
Mostofthepicturesdidnotsatisfy
h
becausethewomanwas"cooing
smiling
orexcitedoreagerornervous
Theoneatleft,however,hadaqual
thatshefounddeeplytouching.Ith
thestartlingeffectoflookinglikea
father'ssnapshotofhiswifeandyoun
ster.Andtheeffectisemphasized
thewoman,who"seemsextremelys
riousandgrave,inthesamewayyou
graveaboutthesafetyofachild."
DIANE
ARBUS. 1971