Model Marriage by Bishop Dag Heward Mills

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Assorted Biblical Principles 13-24

(b) A naked woman with a smiling face is very different from a naked woman with
an angry or unwilling face. After several sessions of unwilling sex, a man may
withdraw. This can even lead to adultery, Note verse 6 above.

No. 21 Principle of Answering for Yourself Why Your Beloved Is
Better than Others

What is thy beloved more than another beloved, O thou fairest among women?
what is thy beloved more than another beloved, that thou dost so charge us?

Song of Solomon 5:9

(a) You must be convinced in yourself that you married the right person.
(b) Give yourself several reasons why your spouse is better than others.^9
(c) Learn to see the advantages and benefits that he or she brings. DO NOT allow
negative things to cloud out your appreciation of your spouse.

No. 22 Principle that Your Beloved Is the Best


My beloved is white and ruddy, the chiefest among ten thousand.

Song of Solomon 5:10

(a) Believe that your beloved is indeed the best amongst all the other options.

No. 23 Principle of Not Overwhelming Your Partner As You Look


Upon Him/Her


Turn away thine eyes from me, for they have overcome me: thy hair is as a flock
of goats that appear from Gilead.

Song of Solomon 6:5

(a) A modest partner may be embarrassed by staring eyes. Learn the beauty of having
sex with different levels of lighting ranging from bright light, dim light, coloured
light, twilight to no light. They have different effects.
(b) Do not embarrass your partner. It will reduce his/her confidence.
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