Chapter 44
How to Improve Your Sexual Life
With the passage of time, there is a tendency for the sexual life of a couple to become
monotonous, boring and not so exciting. This must not be allowed to happen. The purpose of
this lesson is to show couples how to improve and make their sexual lives more exciting and
fulfilling.
7 Steps to Improving Your Sexual Life
- Discover the Potential of the Clitoris
The key to deliberately achieving orgasm is the clitoris (refer to Fig. 9 on page 114). Here are
some guidelines to releasing the potential in the clitoris:
(a) During lovemaking there must be a reasonable amount of kissing, body
stimulation and foreplay.^1 Then the wife should lie on her back and the husband
should gently stimulate both the hood and the button of the clitoris with his
fingers.
(b) Stimulate your wife best by rubbing the surface of the button and also by rubbing
the hood up and down.
(c) The husband should also stimulate the area surrounding the clitoris.
(d) He may transfer some lubrication from his wife’s vagina to her clitoris or use
artificial lubrication if need be.
(e) As stimulation continues, the wife should concentrate on her arousal, turning
herself, her mind and her emotions loose.
(f) The husband must remember that stimulating the clitoris with a dry finger, could
be irritating and this may rather turn his wife off.
(g) The stimulation may vary from a gentle and delicate touch on the button to firm
pressure on the hood.
(h) Stimulation should be continuous and uninterrupted.