Model Marriage
- She is not tender. She is not good at demonstrating love and affection; may not show
much feeling or be very caring about her husband, workers and children. - She is frank and has a sharp tongue.
- She may appear to be insubordinate.
- She is very critical, even in the area of sex.
- A choleric wife may be more pleasing to her boss at work or to her pastors, because
she achieves a lot. However, were the boss to marry her, he may not be able to live
with her! - She is a strong woman who tries to dominate and lead her husband in everything.
- She may not consult him when taking certain major decisions.
- She naturally tells everybody else what to do.
- She may have a hot temper.
- She may be very unforgiving towards her husband.
- She may be so active at home pursuing countless activities that her spouse may feel
unwanted. She may even find activities to do in the night. - Doesn’t take time for real conversation and is easily threatened by questions.
- Is usually not very popular because other males feel threatened by her and she is
often resented and judged by other women.^4
Notes- Tim LaHaye, I Love You But Why Are We So Different?(Eugene, Oregon: Harvest
House, 1991), 19, 20, 37, 40. - Joyce Meyer, Help Me I’m Married!(Fenton, Missouri: Warner Books, 2000), 229.
- Tim LaHaye, I Love You But Why Are We So Different? ( Eugene, Oregon: Harvest
House, 1991), 21, 23. - Ibid., 21, 23.