Model Marriage by Bishop Dag Heward Mills

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Chapter 22


In-Laws



  1. Know that when you marry a person you marry him with his background, family
    situation, financial situation, health situation and all.

  2. Your in-law is closely related to your spouse. They are his parents or guardians.

  3. The Bible admonishes your spouse to honour his/her parents or parent figures and you
    must do the same.


Honour thy father and mother; (which is the first commandment with promise;)
That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth.

Ephesians 6:2-3


  1. Your in-laws are like adopted parents to you.^1

  2. You must believe God to love them unconditionally as in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 even
    when you think they don’t like you.


Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not
itself, is not puffed up, Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is
not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in
the truth; Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all
things. Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail;
whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall
vanish away.

1 Corinthians 13:4-8


  1. No spouse should make the home of his parents his real home. The Bible admonishes
    the couple to leave and cleave to each other.^2

  2. Try not to discriminate between parents as to care, upkeep, finances, etc.

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