Amanmustbeawarethatcriticismsabouthiswifebyhismother,sis-
ter,etcarenotmeanttobesympatheticandoutofgoodintentions,but
the main reasons are jealousy, enmity, selfishness, etc.
Hemustrememberthatbecausehiswifedrawsmuchofhisattention
towards herselfhis family envies her andregards her asa usurper of
theiryoungman.Therefore,theyresorttowaysofpreventingtheirlove
to grow.
DearSins!Inbrief,mothers, sisters,andbrothersof thiskindarenot
botheredwithyour happiness,butrather theyareconcernedwiththeir
owninterests.Iftheywereconcernedwithyourhappiness,theywould
have done something different.
Itisverystrangethatparentsmakeagreatdealof complimentsofa
womanwho wants to marrytheir son,but oncetheirson marriesthat
woman, the parents turn completely the opposite way.
DearSirs!Donotbedeceived.Thosedeficienciesthatyourfamilyset
forthforyourwifearenotrelevant;andeveniftheyarenottrivial,then
remember that nobody is perfect. Anyway, are your sister, mother or
others who criticise your wife, themselves perfect beings?
Payingattentiontotheirslanderousstatementswouldonlyadversely
affectyourfamilylife.Youmightevenendupwithadivorceasaresult
of which you would suffer mentally and economically.
Are-marriagewouldnotbeeasy.Evenifyoufindanotherwomanto
marry,itisnotatallobviousthatsheisanybetterthanyourformerwife.
Howdoyoumakesurethatyourfamilywouldnottreatherasbadlyas
they did with your former wife?
Soitisbetterforyoutotell yourmother,sisterandothersrightnow
thatyourwifesuitsyouandthatyouloveher.Youmustdeclaretothem
thattheyshouldstopcriticisingyourwifeorelseyour wifeorelse you
wouldcutoffyourrelationshipwiththem.Oncetheyfeelyourfirmatti-
tude,they would stoptheir instigate attitude andyoumay find peace
with your wife.