Chapter 57

Do not go After Other Women

Amanmustdohis utmosttochooseawomanthatissuitableforhim,
Heisin apositionwherehecan exercisecare andcaution infindinga
partnerwhomheisgoingtolivewithfortherestofhislife.He,however
after marriageshouldnot go after otherwomen.He mustnot thinkof
any woman except his wife.

Hemustrealisethatagirlhasleftherfamilytolivewithhimanditis
not right for himto pursue childish desires. He must make efforts in
bringinghisnewfamilytogetherandmusttrytocreateafriendlyatmo-
sphere athome. Amanwho is interested inhis own happiness, must,
aftermarriage,giveupnaivethoughtsandmustadapthimselftoanew
life.

Itissenselessforamarriedmantojokewithotherwomenorexpress
hisaffectionforthem.Amanwouldalsonotlikehiswifetojoke with
men.Awomanwouldnot likethistypeof attitudeof herhusband to-
wardsotherwomen.Awomanwhoseesherhusbandclosetootherwo-
menwouldfeeljealousandwouldbe disheartened.Shewouldlose in-
terestinherhouseandfamily.Shemightretaliatewithasimilaraction
or seek divorce.

"Awomancomplainedaboutherhusbandtothecourt.Shehadbeen
married for thirty-three years and said that her husband had always
been in the habit of jesting with other women."

"Awomancomplainedtothecourt thatherhusbandwasalways ex-
pressinginterest in her friends. She said that shecould not invite her
friendstothehousebecausetheythoughtherhusbandwashavinganin-
terestin themandthatshe wasembarrassedbecauseof him."It isnot
properforamarriedmantohaveaneyeonotherwomen.Oglingand