impressionisfreshintheirmindsastheystartofftoschool]orworkand
helps them to make a good start of the day.
Therefore,ifyoucareabout the qualityofyour lifeandthe relation-
shipyouhavewithyourhusband,donotbenegativeinnature.Beposit-
iveinyourattitudeanddispositionsincethebestsupportivepillarofse-
curity to marriage is a good set of ethics leading to a pleasant
disposition.
Mostinstancesof divorceareduetothe incompatiblenatureof man
andwife.Thestatisticsondivorceconclusivelyindicatethatthecompat-
ible attitude, moral values and disposition was non-existent in the
couples.The mainsource of family rowsanddiscordis dueto the in-
compatible characterof the couple's ethical principlesand values.The
following set of data is of interest:
"Intheyear1968,12,760casesoutofatotalof16,039casesofmarital
complaintsbroughttocourtwerebasedonincompatiblemoralfounda-
tions.In1969, 1 1,246casesoutofatotalof16,058caseswerebasedon
thesamereason.Itisthereforeevidentthatmorethanseventypercent
of family rows were due to this factor."
"AwomancomplainedtotheCouncilthatherhusbandalwaysatehis
lunchanddinneroutside.Thehusbandthenexplainedthatthereasonhe
ateoutside wasbecausehis wifehadabsolutelynoconstructivenessin
her andshewasthe worst ofall the ill-disposedwomenin theworld.
Thewifesuddenlygotupandstartedbeatingherhusbandinfrontofthe
judges'."
Thisfoolish womanthought that bycomplaining, abusing andbeat-
ing,shecouldbringhimbackhome.Butshedidnotusethesimpleand
intelligentmethodwhichwastobemoreconsiderateandtoobserveap-
propriate conduct.
"Anotherwomanreportedtothecourtthatherhusbandhasnotbeen
talkingtoherfor 15 monthsandthathewaspayingforlivingexpenses
through his mother. The husband replied that he had enough of his
wife'sill-disposedattitudewhichmadehimdecidenottotalktoherfor
15 months."