Ifyour mother,asaresult ofyoursuggestion,stopsinterfering, then
youwillnot bedisturbed.However, ifsheisnot preparedtotakeany
noticeof yourdesires,itwould bebetterforyoutostopseeing her.In
this way you will be saved and you can live comfortably.
While,asaresultofbreakingawayfromyour parents,youmaylose
someof your respect amongyour family, youwill have earnedmany
times over more respect from your husband.
TheProphet(SA)ofAllahstated:'Thebestofyourwomenisonewho
givesbirthtomanychildren,islovingandchaste,whodoesnotsubmit
tothewillofher relativesbutisobedienttowardsherhusband, adorns
herselfonlyforherhusbandandprotectsherselffromstrangers,listens
toherhusbandandobeyshim,accedestohiswishesinprivacyanddoes
not lose her modesty in any case.
TheProphet (SA)thenadded:'Theworst ofyourwomenisshewho
obeysherrelativesbutdoesnotsubmittothewishesofherhusband,is
barrenandvindictive,isnotafraidofcommittingbaddeeds,adornsher-
selfintheabsenceofherhusband,wouldnotaccedetothewishesofher
husbandinprivacy,wouldnotaccepthisexcusesandwouldnotforgive
his mistakes'."