Suchanapproach,notonlyrelaxesyouwithin,butalsowouldadmon-
ishhim,Hewouldthentrytomakeupforhiswrongdoing,andwould
respectyouforyourgoodmanners.Asaresult,hewouldreviewhisbe-
haviour and would try to discipline himself.
The Prophet (SA) of Allah stated:
"AtatimewhentwoMuslimsrefusetotalktoeachotheranddonot
reconcilewithinthreedays,bothwillbeoutofIslam,andtherewillnot
remainanyfriendshipbetweenthem.Thenanyoneofthemwhotakes
the initiative to reconcile with the other, would enter Paradise faster
(than the other) on the Day of Judgement'."