Principles of Marriage and Family Ethics

(Chris Devlin) #1

The educatedwomanshouldmanagethe familylifein thebest pos-
siblemanner. Sheshouldbe proudof housekeeping andshouldprove
that an educated housewife is much better than an uneducated one.


Itisnotproperforhertoabandonhouseworkonthepretextofbeing
educated. Education is not meant to shirk one's responsibilities, but it
should help one perform his responsibilities better.


"Aman, marriedto ahigh schoolpassedgirl,said inthe court:'My
wiferefusestodoanyhousework.Every timeIprotestedshesaidthat
housekeeping was not meant for an educatedwoman. She is not pre-
paredtochangeandevenasksmetodivorceher.andmarryamaidin-
stead!TwonightsagoIinvitedmywife'srelativesandfriendsfordin-
ner.AtdinnertimeIspreadthetableclothandplacedmywife'sframed
certificateofhighschoolinthemiddle.Ithentoldeveryonetoobserve
the dinner that my wife every night prepares for me."


Nowletusreadtheopinionofafeweducatedwomenaboutbeinga
housewife:
"MrsFNShamirani,agraduate,said;'Ahousewifeshouldbe anex-
pert in dealing with the household affairs, a good companion for her
husband, a good mother to her children and a good hostess to the
guests'."


"DrMrsFasihi,paediatrician,said:'Ibelievethatagenuinehousewife
isonewhoisnotengagedinofficework,becauseofficejobsinourcoun-
trylackthenecessaryFacilitiesregarding nutritionalneedsandnurser-
ies.A womanin anoffice isalways worriedabout her childrenor her
husband's food'."


"Mrs S Yakita, Technical Superintendent of the Faculty of Medicine,
said;'Ahousewifeshouldbeabletocreateacleanandattractivehouse
withtheleastPossiblebudget.Sheshouldsharethehappyandsadtime
withherhusband.Shemustnotignoreherhusband'smentalandsocial
status'."


"MrsINaimi said:'A housewifeis one whominimises herunneces-
saryrecreationsandwhowouldtrytoimprovetheaffairsofthehouse.
She must also be able to regulate the income with spending'."

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