Chapter 19
Ten Ways to Find Out about
Someone without Asking
In This Chapter
Observing the signs
Reflecting on the meaning
S
o, you’ve seen someone who’s caught your eye. Although she’s interest-
ing enough to investigate, you don’t want to pump your friends for infor-
mation at this stage. What do you do? Pay attention.You have two eyes, two ears, and one mouth. Use them in that order and you
may discover what qualities this person possesses that floats your boat or
rings your bells, without you giving your game away.Observing Eye Movements .........................................................................
Do they flash? Do they flicker? Are they dull and dreary? Turn to the eyes, the
gateway to the soul, as your first point of reference.No matter how much your mouth churns out information, your eyes reveal
more. Eyes that turn downwards like Antonio Banderas’s give the impression
that the person is authoritative and caring. Women swoon at Banderas’s com-
bination of soulful eyes and strong physique. They also quiver at the new
James Bond, Daniel Craig, he of the steely eyes and climbing-frame figure.
What are that man’s eyes saying?