Since she values other people‘s opinions, if other people value you highly,
she will too.
Put simply, a woman will want you more if other women want you or if
you‘ve been with exceptional women. By wanting you, other women give you
that social proof. This raises your value to her.
Now, you can‘t expect to have the same social proof a celebrity does, but it
still works powerfully anyway.
This idea is especially effective if there are women who want you who she
perceives to be more attractive than her. Since looks are the value women are
rated on the most, hot girls carry a lot of social approval. Being wanted by one
says good things about a guy‘s value. The less good-looking girl wants to feel
she‘s at the same level as the hot babe, so she‘ll be very attracted to the guy
that they both want.
Some guys avoid talking about any other women in their lives, romantic or
not, because they‘re afraid of giving a girl the wrong impression. If they do
mention another woman, they‘re often sure to make clear that it‘s just a
platonic friendship.
THIS IS ALL A HUGE MISTAKE!
You can mention an interesting fact about one of your female friends that‘s
relevant to the conversation, but just don‘t go on and on for hours or bring it
up all the time. It backfires if it seems like you‘re trying too hard or that she‘s
not at all important compared to them.
This can be great with little things like having a friend whose homemade
cheesecake is better than hers. You can make a funny comment that
challenges her abilities, enhances your value by showing the approval of
others, and also gives her a potential competitor for your attention to
consider.
Relationships can still carry approval value even if they‘re in the past. The
fact that an exceptional woman was involved with you means you were good
enough to attract her and gives you a lot of approval. You fill subsequent
women‘s existing wants for approval more strongly, so you become more
wanted and more attractive.
THIS REVEALS ANOTHER BIG MISTAKE!
A lot of guys usually talk negatively about past girlfriends.
The worse you make your ex-girlfriends look, the lower you reveal your
standards are, and the worse you make yourself look. Since the better your