James Bond Doesn‘t Get Upset
Total composure brings amazing results.
Though ̳women are the emotional ones,‘ most men cannot keep their
composure when a woman starts pushing their buttons.
Women will always test, because they must. How else can they know for
sure if you‘re really, really, really the real man you appear to be? They‘re
subconsciously programmed to test their self-importance against their
importance to you.
So, losing your composure is one of the fastest ways to lose a woman.
Being upset or angry is unpleasant to be around and reveals insecurity in you.
Instead, welcome her test. Be charmed by it. Never lose your composure
over her games.
See through them. Disarm them. Enjoy them.
Always take the ―I don‘t need this and I can walk away at any time‖
attitude of zero-clinginess. This is a philosophy of yours worth mentioning
early on to her. It attracts the quality women you deserve and filters the
negative ones you wouldn‘t want anyway.
Never give her approval or ego-strokes for her job, income, or fame. Just
be quiet and act like ―Mm hmm... tell me something interesting, something
that doesn‘t sound insecure.‖
Have the total indifference to disconnect instantly. If she uses it too, beat
her to it by going further: if she says her friends are coming and she‘ll have to
go when they arrive, just reply ―OK, bye‖ and break away immediately.
Dealing with Tests and Challenges...................................................
Women tend to have pictures in their minds of what they want. And when
you don‘t fit the frame, they take a hammer to your head, not the picture!
Women always test and challenge with questions and behavior to see if
you‘ll let them control you. Knowing they often will try, you must stop
responding like she‘s a boss from whom you need approval! It may not seem
logical to bust her balls when these things happen, but that‘s exactly what you
need to do. At all costs, don’t be a wuss and kiss up to her.
I always like to put women getting upset into this perspective: "Awww,
isn't she cute getting all upset like that?" If teasing her only causes her
emotions to escalate, then I'd say something like, "Wow, you've really got this
getting upset thing down. Does it usually work to get other people to get upset