Attraction Isn't A Choice

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of situation with which she‘s dealing. It also makes you think along the right
lines, which is to be a little bit skeptical and frees you from the ―If we sleep
together, then I‘m committed‖ mental obligation.


Most women are looking for the leader, who is the impenetrable decision
maker. Nothing she says has or CAN have any effect on him. A challenge, one
she can keep testing. Her genes are looking for this NATURAL disposition
because this kind of guy is more likely to have offspring that will also have
dominant qualities.


Believing ―I‘m the man, others do what I want. I‘m in control of reality and
this situation. I‘m a cause in the world and GET WHAT I WANT,‖ but at the
same time not making it obvious you want her creates a subtle tension that‘s
almost magnetic.


Some guys write to me ―This stuff sounds like you think that being an
a**hole is a good idea. I don‘t want to be a jerk... I‘m a nice guy...‖


I‘m glad this is a concern since I don‘t believe in hurting anyone, but these
guys are missing the point.


The point is not to be mean, but to maintain a high level of self-respect
while having fun. There‘s a big difference between mean and funny... women
enjoy teasing but not verbal abuse.


Guys are too wrapped up in a taught-by-mom ―be nice to women‖
mentality. We‘re too used to women who were also taught by mom and heard
her saying, ―You‘re the honey and they‘re the bees.‖ Most guys are so
conditioned to see the world this way they‘ll probably never break through—
and never really fulfill a woman.


But that‘s OK—it just means more for the rest of us!


Women in Demand are Demanding


Beautiful women are the thing men want most... so men devote incredible
energy and attention to attract them. These women can afford to be choosy,
and they're good at spotting good prospects. And, more importantly, they‘re
good at disqualifying bad ones.


To compete in their arena you have to know how the rules work, do the
right things, and take 100% responsibility. You can make no excuses for
failure.


Improve your looks to their best, adopt a cocky & funny indifferent attitude
of self-confidence, and incorporate the related body language. Your voice tone
needs to be naturally suspicious, cool, slow, and deep when dealing with these
women.

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