Attraction Isn't A Choice

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The more beautiful the woman, the stronger you have to believe and act
upon a high opinion of your own self-worth, because they‘re not attracted to
people who feel less than them.


Revere yourself. Put a very high value on yourself, your time, your
attention, and your approval of things: ―If you‘re nice you‘ll get my attention
and approval. If you‘re not, then I have no time for you.‖


The Attitude May Sometimes Be a Burden


...but it‘s worth the small sacrifice. And she‘ll thank you for it.


A lot of guys tell me that they don‘t want to be in control all the time
because it‘s too much of a hassle! There‘s a difference between being
dominant and being domineering.


Staying in control means always knowing what to do or where to go next.
It doesn‘t mean insisting she agree with you. It just means not caring if she
doesn‘t.


It is okay to let her decide what to do once in a while, but she will resent
you either consciously or subconsciously if you utter these words of wussiness:
―I don’t know, what do you want to do?‖


Summary of the Attitude


 Be cool, calm, and collected.

 Don‘t be weak and tentative.

 Make your own decisions and then act on them confidently.

 Don‘t seek approval and treat difficult attitudes with indifference.

 Don‘t let things impress you easily.

 Don‘t get all self-conscious about your mistakes. Acknowledge them
with light humor but don‘t try to hide or excuse them.

 Never excuse your behavior and don‘t say, "Oh, I'm sorry." Instead,
have fun and blame mistakes on her.

 Don‘t be always checking whether or not she‘s happy. Allow her to
take care of herself or come to you when she wants help.

 Adopt a "so, entertain me" attitude and ask her to make an effort for
you.
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