I've taken this idea and adapted it to dealing with women and dating. My
idea is that if you never give a woman exactly what she wants, she'll stay very
interested and become even more attracted to you.
Before I continue, let me mention that I'm not saying, "Don't give a
woman what she wants." I'm saying not to give women EXACTLY what they
want.
For instance, if a woman says, "Pick me up at 7", you can say "I'll pick you
up at 7:30." If a woman wants you to buy her some flowers, don't buy them
right then, but surprise her sometime when YOU feel like it. If a woman wants
a kiss, say "What am I going to get in return? ...Hmmm... no, I'm going to
think about it..." The key is to stay cool and calm and just decide to do
something a little different than what she wants.
Make sure you don't come off like a cold jerk that is just trying to be
argumentative. Don't ever get emotional when you're using this idea! You're
just doing things a little bit more your way... and in the process being very
unpredictable and interesting.
Are you with me?
Here's the interesting part: If you go and ask ten female friends about this
idea, they're going to say, "That wouldn't work on me." But if you try this with
a woman that you're dating, you'll find something completely different.
We humans are attracted to things that frustrate us a little bit. And when
we come across another person that seems interested, but doesn't give us
exactly what we want, we start thinking about it all the time. It almost
becomes a challenge to see if we can get the other person who's resisting us
to give in to us.
Now, most guys will try this idea and have the woman say "Ohhh, please...
cummon... let me have it..." and then they go along with what wants. DON'T
DO IT! Keep up the challenges, and you'll keep up the interest and
ATTRACTION. If you start giving in, she'll start to lose the interest and
attraction.
How do I know that this works? It‘s because there were times when I had
three different women that I hadn't seen or talked to in months call or email to
see what I was doing and if I wanted to get together. What did they all have in
common? You guessed it... I originally used my ATTRACTION attitude and
ideas with all of them.