Remember, ATTRACTION doesn't make logical sense... Women don't say
"Oh, he's a kind, honest, loyal type of guy from a good family... AND THAT
REALLY TURNS ME ON." Nope. Women say things like: "He's sexy", "There's
chemistry between us", or "I really feel something for him"...
And also remember: If a woman feels a strong ATTRACTION for you, then
the rest of the equation isn't as important. If she feels it, she'll go out of her
way to find good reasons to be with you... even if you're not her "physical
type."
On the other hand, no amount of gifts, favors, dinners, kindness, or having
a good family will make her feel ATTRACTION... at best these things can only
make her feel a more "loyal" kind of love.
So if women don't like "average" guys, and the most important thing is to
make her feel ATTRACTION towards you, then how do you do it?
I thought you'd never ask... First, let's talk about the word "average" and what
it REALLY means.
As far as women are concerned, and especially the ATTRACTIVE ones, men
are EVERYWHERE. They're like cars. Every once in a while one stands out and
makes you say, "Oh, that one is nice."
A lot of guys take this concept too far and say, "Well, I'm not rich, and I'm
not famous... so no really hot woman is going to find me attractive."
My experience and research has shown me that women are far more
ATTRACTED to things like attitude, confidence, body language, and humor
than looks or money. Sure, those things might INITIALLY get a woman's
attention, and there are those women that will only settle for a rich or
unusually handsome guy... but these types are an extreme minority.
In fact, it's very easy to be seen as "above average" if you know what
women are looking for, and you know how to deliver.
Remember the danger: If you are perceived as "average" early on, then a
switch goes off in her mind, and the game will be over before it's even begun.
So let's do a little exercise... Let's figure out two things: 1) What most
guys do that women see as "average", and... 2) What you can do to instantly
be seen as "ABOVE average" and most importantly, ATTRACTIVE.
First, let's talk about what most guys do in most situations (more
specifically, what most guys do WRONG. Here are some of the things that I've
seen...