problems which damage relationships for life. Much better in most cases to
find someone new.
How Do I Handle Competition From Other Guys?
Here's what to do when you're actually IN this kind of situation...
- EXPECT IT. If you start dating hot women, other men will hit on them,
GUARANTEED. It's part of life, man. You must expect that it's going to
happen, and not be surprised when it does. - Learn how to have FUN with it. Most guys have no game at all... and
it's kind of funny to watch and listen to them. I enjoy watching guys
try to meet women, because they FAIL miserably in most cases. I like
to wait until a guy is finished trying to pick up on the girl I'm with, and
then get her to share the details so I can laugh. - Suggest that she date the guy. One of my favorite things to do is say
"Hey, you guys would make a cute couple... I think you should go for
him." Of course, this is all said in a light, fun way.
If you suspect that the girl you're with is actually TRYING to make you
jealous, talk to other women. If you actually think that a woman is deliberately
trying to make you jealous, you must do some thinking as well. Some women
enjoy making men compete over them, and you probably don't want to be
with one of these women. They're a pain. But if you think it's just a typical
situation and the girl is trying to figure out if you "really" like her (because
you'll get jealous if you do), then just turn around and start a conversation
with a group of girls... and wait for her to come and find you.
The point I'm making is that you MUST get over that fear / insecurity /
jealousy issue, and realize that there is nothing to be afraid of.
The only power that other guys will have with your date is the power that
you GIVE them... so don't give them any power by acting like a WUSS. Keep
your power for yourself. The main reason that other guys try to hit on your girl
is because they don't have one themselves. Remember that.
Should I Date More Than One Woman?
I personally don't promote "serial dating". You're right... it's really a waste
of time.
If you're going to get out there and REALLY make a go of it, you should use
"parallel dating"... or dating several women AT THE SAME TIME.