Now let‘s shake things up a little.
The Power Of Attraction
I have something bold to say:
If you meet a woman and interact with her long enough for her to form an
initial impression of you, and she feels no attraction for you, then THERE‘S
BASICALLY NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT! No amount of kicking,
screaming, calling, trying, buying her things, or taking her out will do a damn
thing about it.
If you meet a woman and interact with her long enough for her to form an
initial impression of you, and she DOES feel attraction for you, then there‘s
nothing SHE can do about it! And no amount of logic, thinking about it, or
peer-pressure can stop it. In fact, some women will endure abuse, neglect,
and all kinds of other horrible things because they just can‘t overcome their
own emotion of attraction.
Why do women feel strong attraction towards some men... and in many or
even most cases these men are not rich, handsome, or famous?
Because they CAN‘T HELP IT.
Why do women feel zero attraction for some men, even though they have
all of the outward appearances of the ideal man?
Because they CAN‘T HELP IT.
Think about that for a second or two.
A woman feels these things because she can‘t help it. She can‘t do
anything about it. To her, it‘s experienced as just HAPPENING.
We‘re dealing with a mechanism that is stronger than logic, stronger than
reason, stronger than a parent‘s warning, and stronger than bad experiences.
The force of attraction can be unimaginably unfair, completely illogical,
unusually cruel, and beyond comprehension.
People will do things that are totally irrational and exactly opposite of
what‘s good for them when they‘re under the influence of Attraction.
I‘ve seen people take ridiculous risks and lose much of themselves because
of attraction.
But the fact is that attraction is neither good nor bad.
It just is.