From The Mailbag
Just gotta say that your newsletters just seem to get
better and better, Dave.
Your "Off The Cuff" style and wit is very real. Very
together. And I haven't been able to find any "out in left
field" philosophies in the year I've been reading your
stuff. You kept your ebooks simple,light, and give ample
directives toward furthered study, application, and growth...
...I like the theorem you have established regarding
what women are attracted to and how jerks tend to radiate
such unbefitting magnetic wonders without even trying. Now
I understand. Now it makes sense. It's simply an ironic
side effect caused from a destructive core attitude. The
stress factor imposed in a kiddish way, pressure on, tease
and keep the ball in your own court, cause it's your ball
kinda' play works. You outlines it. You developed amazing
efficiencies. It works for you and it will work for me.
But as for the brutes, a**holes and jerks, it's not a
method, per se'. It's a side effect. The jerks know the
games women play and they don't let them get away with it
because they would take every advantage of anyone they can,
anyways. The jerks have the style, the jest, the child-like
sibling revelry mindset which when kept somewhat controlled
within social gatherings it tends to perk women up. Many
women find this somewhat attractive. Not primarily because
it's attractive at all, but because most gentlemen don't
know what it is about jerks that makes them so attractive.
They wouldn't dare bust a babe in public, nor wittingly
evade they're wiley feminine, blatantly common, yet
stealthfully assertive, pertinent personal-tech type info-
gathering questions. A gentleman wouldn't answer with
revealing tactful secrets only women are supposed to know.
Nice guys generally will not rock the boat. They're polite,
gracious, knowable, and generous. But that is not what
attracts them to your bedside. Sad but true.
The jerks have no sympathy for women's weaknesses.
Their confident aggressive posture falls as second nature
due to their overblown egos and lack of moral conscience.
The gentleman's social approach on the other hand is
friendly, agreeable, compromising, and casual, if at all
interesting. The jerk however takes every opportunity to
skillfully and shamelessly air her dirty laundry within