(or be willing to
submit).
“I want to be
honest and share
all of my thoughts
and feelings if I
feel like it.”
Attractive women
get spooked when
a man says, “I have
feelings for you”
too early in the
game... and they
run.Even if you have
feelings for her,
lean back, give her
space, and let the
anticipation build.
Let her be the first
to reveal feelings.“I want a woman
to look past the
fact that I’m
overweight, smelly,
and uneducated.”
Women use outer
clues to judge a
man’s inner
character.Have more self-
respect and make
the best of what
you have. You don’t
have to look like
Brad Pitt, but
there’s no excuse
for letting yourself
go.See if you can come up with some areas where YOU are idealizing. And use
this system to come up with solutions for yourself. It will help clarify your
thinking and give you power to change.
The Nice Guy‟s „Real-Self‟ is „Real Manipulation‟
Self-image is incredibly powerful and yet many men are attached for no
good reason to self-images that don‘t accomplish what they want.
A lot of guys say, "I don‘t want to change, I just want to be myself and
have a woman like me for who I am; I don‘t want to use any of these
techniques because I don‘t want to be manipulative.‖
But get this... the ―real‖ self-images to which these guys are usually
clinging ARE STRONGLY BASED ON WHAT OTHERS THINK OF THEM, so they
act like anything but ̳themselves‘, buy gifts and meals, kiss up, and generally
act manipulative any way they can.
I and many guys I know, have manipulated women all our lives without
realizing it, but because we think being nice is socially acceptable, expected by
the woman, or just "being ourselves". We didn't see what it really was.
The Wussy is a manipulator. Even when he‘s whipped and caving to her
demands, he manipulatively pretends to be happy with ―going along with her
way‖ instead of taking into consideration his own needs. He hopes he can get
closer to her and hold onto her by doing everything she wants.