I think the only reason we feel there‘s something wrong with manliness is
that religions, social ideals, and women have conditioned us into thinking that
what our DNA wants is EVIL. The truth is that those drives are absolutely
essential and exist because they successfully help propagate the human race.
The social stigma of sex is a complex process, but it boils down to the fact
that because reproduction is a competition no one wants you to have more sex
than them. We hide sex from others, and only talk about it to warn them that
it‘s bad. We try to keep them away from what we want to have ourselves by
making it ̳taboo‘.
The invention of birth control means sex no longer has to lead to
reproduction, but keeping sex hidden is such an old game it‘s buried deep in
our psyche, biology, and our culture—especially our religion. I have absolutely
nothing against organized religion, especially since it‘s full of wonderful
insights, and I‘m what I consider to be a spiritual person myself. But I do think
any negative or disgusting views on sex are outdated.
I think religion continues to condemn sex because it gains power over you
by saying your natural drives are wrong. We‘re social animals, so we‘re
naturally equipped to feel guilt and shame in order to keep the group stable by
punishing us from acting against it.
Then there‘s women: After being repressed for a long time, women started
to demand the chance to fulfill their potential, which I‘m all for and which is
making our society a better place in a lot of ways. But as humans tend to do,
feminists swung from one extreme to the other and bash men for their natural
desires so that they can make themselves look stronger.
But for all their demonizing of sex-obsessed males, women still enjoy sex
for pleasure too. It‘s part of what‘s kept the human race here until now.
Studies of the accidental birth-rate vary in their results, but I‘ve heard
numbers from 60 to 70 percent. This means that the majority of the sex
that resulted in a pregnancy wasn’t sex for reproduction, it was sex
for fun!
When a man can approach a woman in the right way, bypass the barriers
of her social persona, and turn on the inner switch of attraction, she will be
grateful for his manliness and enjoy the fulfillment he offers.
If this attractive man is inside us, and if women WANT us to be him, why
are we so distanced from him? We‘ve seen some of the reasons why we were
made to lose touch, now let‘s get in depth on what beliefs have been hidden
inside us to limit us from him.