If a $1 lottery ticket had a 1 in 10 chance of paying off $100, it would be
worth trying right? Well, even if you‘re just starting out, and you‘ve only got a
1 in 10 chance of success with a given woman, trying only costs you a
moment of your time.
There‘s no reason to demand results from only one interaction. This also
means there‘s no need to learn everything there is to know about dating (an
impossible task to begin with) before you start to practice dating. It‘ll be easier
to learn the more practical knowledge you‘ve got under your belt (so to speak)
and there are some things you‘ll only be able to understand once you‘ve had
the right experience.
Whether it‘s because they‘re afraid of failing with a woman or because this
is the first woman who‘s been nice to them or gone out with them, guys often
let one outcome become so vitally important to them they forget learning this
material is about the inner game, inner growth, inner satisfaction, and long-
term happiness in life. If you give up some of yourself to make this one
attempt work out, NOT ONLY ARE YOU GOING TO LOSE THIS ONE, YOU‘RE
ALSO GOING TO MISS THE BIG PICTURE TOO.
Natural Variation And Success Patterns
Successes come in groups, and uninterested women or unfortunate
circumstances do too. If you flip a coin repeatedly it doesn‘t neatly alternate
heads and then tails. There will be strings of each in a row. It‘s a phenomenon
called natural variation which shouldn‘t affect your confidence.
When you have success, keep rolling with that energy, and when you have
a string of uninterested women, keep going anyway because it‘s just random.
The better you get, the more success you‘ll have.
Avoiding Averages
Averages affect average people the most. A lot of guys say ―well I‘m short‖
or ―I‘m average looking‖ or ―I‘m not that good with women,‖ average people
come up with all kinds of reasons why they‘re not successful. They come up
with excuses for their own failure: ―I‘m just average, that‘s just what‘s going
to happen.‖
People who make the decision to become exceptional and then go do what
it takes to be exceptional aren‘t affected by averages. Only the average guy
who accepts that average women don‘t like short guys is affected by that
preference. You can turn them in your favor otherwise.
Avoid being average.
Attractive women don‘t want average men.