Emotions are basically chemical reactions in the bloodstream and brain.
Fear, for example, is the feeling that occurs when something triggers our
sense of danger. We release adrenaline into our system to raise our alertness
and to prepare us to face the situation.
In exactly the same way, we feel attraction when the appropriate signals
trigger the release of little balls of chemicals waiting on the end of neural
receptors to be released into synapses. Heightened, focused interest, and the
beginnings of sexual arousal are a couple of examples from the many effects
caused by attraction.
What triggers attraction? Simply consider what turns people on. For men,
visuals are clearly important: the mere sight of a sexy woman can change a
man‘s state of mind and generate strong sexual arousal. But it can also be
done with sound— just think about how big the phone sex industry is.
Similarly, women can have their attraction mechanism triggered in many
different ways. While it can be the sight of an attractive guy, I think it‘s more
often a combination of things based on personality rather than looks.
It is VERY important that you remember that women experience strong,
overwhelming feelings of attraction too.
And it‘s very important for you to learn how to TRIGGER these powerful
physical and emotional responses... because you‘re not going to ―talk her into‖
feeling them.
3.2 WHY ATTRACTION IS ILLOGICAL & WHAT DOES ATTRACT WOMEN
Replicators
I‘m about to talk about the concept of ―evolution‖. Don‘t freak on me. If
you believe in the concept, great. If not, that‘s fine. Just pretend that you do
for the sake of this argument... because it will help you become more
successful with women.
To explore exactly what triggers attraction for women, let‘s go back to the
beginning. In ―The Selfish Gene‖, Richard Dawkins explains that billions of
years ago a molecule randomly occurred among the chemical reactions of
early earth that had the incredible property of replicating itself.
This incredible property meant that this molecule became more and more
common, and as it replicated itself, inevitably there were errors in the
replication process that created imperfect copies which differed from the
original in some fashion. Most of these variants probably couldn‘t replicate
themselves and were the only instance of their kind.