Now we can see exactly why personality and communication is so
important when it comes to ATTRACTION.
Personality is a key indicator of men‘s ―genetic fitness‖... and so evolution
has driven women to be more attracted to it than anything else.
Now don‘t get me wrong... physically attractive guys do have an advantage
in many cases because women respond different to them initially. This slight
edge, in the bigger scheme of things, can lead to significant results.
Men who for whatever reason are seen as more desirable often naturally
learn to act more dominant, etc. in keeping with their most advantageous
mating strategy, and those men who are seen as less desirable learn to try
and make up for their lesser desirability through compensating behavior (like
buying dinners and giving gifts).
Women KNOW on a subconscious level why each type of man is behaving
the way he is. It‘s obvious to them.
Since women know subconsciously why each type of man is acting the way
he is, both of these patterns serve to reinforce the men‘s initial desirability
ratings. The more attractive a woman is, the higher standards she‘ll typically
have, and the more practice she‘ll have detecting how much strength is behind
a personality.
Remember, simple rules can yield startlingly good statistical results.
Women use simple things to disqualify men because there are so many from
which to choose. It‘s simple time management!
Think about the learning curve for a moment and imagine how long it
would take a beautiful woman to get a feel for whether or not a person would
be a good match for them. Since they‘re presented options many times a day,
almost every day since puberty, they develop a sixth sense for weeding out
the lesser prospects.
Since provider behavior does have some benefit to a woman, it can attract
some of them—those who don‘t think they‘re good enough to attract a man
with great genes!
Hot women know very well that they‘re attractive to men, and they know
that they don‘t need to settle for a Wuss who wants to buy them dinner.
They want to find a dominant male who is exhibiting his good genes, and
then get him to stay with them. THIS DOESN‘T MEAN TURNING INTO A WUSS.
Once a man turns into a Wuss, he reveals that his genes aren‘t good
enough to earn the woman on their own merit and that he feels he needs to
offer her something more. So she‘ll soon be off to find someone whose genes
do deserve her.