Just like Pavlov‘s dogs learning to connect the ringing of a bell with time and
drooling whenever hearing this sound, humans subconsciously learn to
associate seemingly unconnected surface things with more important issues
hidden underneath.
Communication occurs anytime one person obtains ―meaning‖ from
another individual. Whether or not it‘s the meaning the sender meant to
express, something has been communicated.
Remember that point... It doesn’t matter whether or not you wanted to
communicate the message. If the other person got meaning from it, then
you’ve communicated something to them.
Since our incredible brains are so good at making associations, we have a
natural ability to interpret even unintentional communication.
This is why we talk about things like ―body language‖.
Even though we don‘t usually mean to do so, we reveal a lot of information
about ourselves through body language. While you might not consciously think
that voice tone reveals anything about personality, your brain early on learns
the pattern between voice tone and personality, and your subconscious makes
the appropriate associations between the two.
When you talk to a woman, you‘re not just communicating with your
words.
Communication happens on several levels simultaneously, and only
something like 7% of what you communicate is on the verbal level.
The other 93% is in your body language and voice tone rather than in
your words.
Realizing this concept is the first step in opening your mind to the
awareness of the “hidden languages” of ATTRACTION.
In addition to just body language and voice tone, there are many other
hidden ways of communication, or ―hidden languages,‖ and to control
attraction you need to be aware of and control every message you send.
Unspoken Languages
I often make the mistake of assuming that most people understand body
language well.
As it turns out, it‘s not true at all.
In fact, it‘s pretty funny that I make this mistake, because I used to be
pretty bad at understanding body language myself!