Attraction Isn't A Choice

(Kiana) #1

Body Language


I believe that the words you say actually don't matter much. What matters
is HOW you say them with both your voice and your body language.


You can say a word and have it mean just about ANYTHING by shifting
your voice tone and body language. You can be sarcastic, funny, serious, or
whatever.


And remember this point:


Women are as much as 10 times better able to read subtle body
language than men.


Women can see and then give meaning (and usually accurate meaning)
from cues you never even knew existed. It‘s almost scary.


When I first started learning about how to meet women, I can remember
thinking that I needed to learn pick-up lines and other tricks. I had no idea
that this stuff was basically useless without the all-important understanding of
how body language works.


After a lot of trial and error, I started to realize that when my body
language and voice tone were correct, I could say ALMOST ANYTHING to
women, and they would feel ATTRACTION.


A lot of my little practical tips are ways to say, ―I‘m confident and in
control, I‘m the selector‖ through body language: turning away first, walking
away to give her space, squinting, pulling back further if she pulls back, etc.
They‘re such small actions they may seem insignificant, but body language is
so powerful they‘re actually huge signs about your inner-beliefs and self-
confidence.


You can express power and understanding with subtle gestures, even when
done only occasionally, such as touching the small of her back, cupping her
face, pulling her hair slightly, or stroking her head in a ―protective‖ way.


Let‘s say you‘re talking to a woman using confident body language,
teasing, and building sexual tension. You have good eye contact, you‘re
indifferent, and she‘s interested.


You can make a subtle little move like reaching with the back of one of
your fingers and stroking her arm very slowly and gently, so she can just feel
your fingers stroking her. Do it quickly – it might last only three seconds while
you smile and look her in the eyes.


Now the average man would find this stupid and think it made no
difference, but to a woman it communicates that you totally understand. You

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