It reveals a lack of experience with both women and sex. Lack of
experience suggests undesirability because if you were more desirable,
previous women would have ̳experienced‘ you in these matters.
More subtly, but equally powerfully, avoiding the topic of sex reveals
important subconscious beliefs about yourself. When you talk to a girl and
something in the conversation comes up that could be related to sex, there‘s
an almost instantaneous chain of associations that occur.
The topic of sex connects to the idea of the girl you are talking to, and
creates the possibility of your having sex with her. If you don‘t think she would
want to have sex with you—which means that you don‘t think you are worthy
of her—you will not want to create this idea in her mind. So you will avoid
talking about sex, because we often try to avoid negatives, especially
rejection.
It doesn‘t matter though, because even though you don‘t say anything out
loud, hidden communication still expresses two big negatives about you to
her.
First of all, avoiding the topic of sex reveals that when you think of it, you
automatically think of sex with her. Secondly, not talking about it reveals that
when you do think of sex with her, you think she would find that undesirable.
This is an incredibly important concept to grasp.
NOT TALKING ABOUT SEX BECAUSE YOU DON‘T WANT HER TO KNOW
YOU‘RE THINKING ABOUT IT IS EXACTLY WHAT TELLS HER YOU ARE
THINKING ABOUT IT AND THAT YOU’RE NOT WORTHY OF IT!
On the other hand, if you do feel comfortable bringing up sex in
conversation, you reveal the opposite two things.
First, you reveal that in your brain, the idea of sex is not so strongly tied to
the idea that talking about it to her necessarily means that you have to think
about having sex with her.
Second, you reveal that if SHE associates the idea of sex with you and
therefore thinks of having sex with you, you‘re comfortable with it because
you believe you are sexually deserving.
All of these thought processes are subconscious for a woman. I‘m not
saying they sit there and pay attention to what you don‘t talk about and figure
out what negative thought is connected to the thing you didn‘t discuss.
Women have just learned to intuitively recognize that the ̳regular‘ guys who
don‘t talk about sex are the perverts whose minds are obsessed with it. By the
same token, they‘ve learned that the sexually aware guys who can talk about
it are the ones who have sex under control.