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word. This technique has been associated with reduced oxygen
consumption, decreased respiration, slower heart rate, and lower
blood pressure. Most important, research has indicated that medita-
tion can alter one’s mood and emotions (Bourne, 1995).
Benson (1976), in his well-known book The Relaxation Response,
developed his own version of meditation, which involved mentally
repeating the word one with each exhalation of breath. The follow-
ing is an adaptation of his procedure (Peurifoy, 1995):
- Pick a time and place where you will not be disturbed and lie
or sit in a comfortable position. - Close your eyes and choose a center of focus. This is a word
or phrase that helps shift your mind from a logical, externally
oriented thought to an internal, passive center of focus and
stops your mind from wandering. The most common focal
point is a word such as one, calm, or relax. However, a short
phrase can also be used, such as relax and be at peace. - Repeat your word or phrase each time you exhale. As you do
this, adopt a passive attitude. This is the most important ele-
ment of this method. Avoid concern about how well you are
performing the technique and adopt a “let it happen” attitude.
Your mind will occasionally slip away from its concentration
on the word or phrase you have chosen. When this happens,
don’t panic or abandon your practice. Simply redirect your
mind to your breathing and continue repeating your chosen
word or phrase after each exhalation. - Practice for 10 to 20 minutes, then open your eyes and resume
your normal activities. (p. 317)
In summary, if you experience negative physiological symptoms to
stressful events, you will want to explore strategies for dealing with
your symptoms. Many students find jogging or walking, or listening
to music helpful. You can find numerous books in the library or local
bookstore on various relaxation techniques.
Key Points
- What individuals say to themselves is an important factor in deter-
mining their attitudes, feelings, emotions, and behavior. - Individuals who exhibit inappropriate self-talk often act in an
inappropriate manner. - People or events do not directly influence individuals’ emotional
reactions. Individuals’ self-talk regarding events is the primary
cause of their attitudes and emotions.