Friendship

(C. Jardin) #1

To be a Highly Evolved Being, you must always be true. First, you must be true to yourself,
then to another, then to all others. And if you are not true to yourself, you cannot be true to
anyone else. Thus, if you love someone other than the one who wishes you to love only
them, then you must say so, openly, honestly, directly, clearly, and immediately.


And that’s supposed to be acceptable?


Nobody is required to accept anything. In highly evolved relationships between Highly
Evolved Beings, everyone simply lives their truth—and everyone speaks the truth they are
living. If something is happening with someone, that is simply acknowledged. If something is
unacceptable to someone, that is simply spoken. The truth is shared with everyone about
everything all the time. This is done as a celebration, not an admission.


The truth should be something to celebrate, not to admit.


Yet you cannot celebrate a truth of which you have been told to be ashamed. And you have
been told to be ashamed of nothing more than you have been told to be ashamed of who and
how and when and why you love.


You have been told to be ashamed of your desires and your passions and your love of
everything from dancing to whipped cream to other people.


Most of all, you have been told to be ashamed of your love for your very Self. Yet how can
you ever love another if you are not allowed to love the one who is supposed to be doing the
loving?


This is the precise dilemma that you face with God.


How can you love Me if you cannot be allowed to love the essence of Who You Are? And
how can you see and declare My glory if you cannot see and declare your own?


I tell you this—again: all true Masters have declared their glory, and they have encouraged
others to do the same.


You begin on the road to your own glory when you begin on the road to your own truth. This
path is taken when you declare that, henceforth, you will tell the truth all the time, about
everything, to everyone. And that you will live your truth.


In this commitment, infidelity has no place. Yet telling someone that you love another is not
infidelity. It is honesty. And honesty is the highest form of love.


Oh, my God. You did it again. There’s another one for the refrigerator. Would You repeat
that, please?


Honesty is the highest form of love.


I wish I could remember that.


Put it on your refrigerator.


Ha! So You seem to be saying that being in the arms of another is okay, as long as you’re
honest about it. Am I getting this right?


You are reducing it to its most volatile terms.

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