Day Six - Love
Morning Ritual:
Quote for the day:
Letís say you have a friend. Whether it is a mate,a former mate, a son a friend, doesnít matter.
Somebody in your experience, and they have 10 predominant characteristics.
7 of the characteristics are delightful.and 3 of these characteristics are abhorrent. And being an
observer, like most humans are .You are observing all 10 of them so you are experiencing some of
all 10 of them. But you for the most part appreciate the relationship, because 7 of them are won-
derful, and only 3 of them are abhorrent. And so you would call it basically a good relationship.
So then you decide that rather than just be an observer. You are going to be a more selective sifter
of data,and you are going to use your power of imagination .And so the 3 things that are sort of
abhorrent to you, you notice and you feel the negative response to them. And little by little, as we
have demonstrated a bit here today, you feel the negative emotion, you identify what you would
like to exclude. Then you identify what you want to include Now, earlier we said to you that the
formulae for creating anything that you want is simpleÖÖ.Identify the desire and then
vibrationally match it.
If you cant match it through what you are observingÖÖ.and often you cantÖÖ..as in these 3
abhorrent qualities they donít match your desire. No problem! Match your desire through your
imagination.
So now here you are.A person who has identified desire really keenly because you have observed
things you donít want which helps you to identify what you do want. So your desires out here
pulsing sort of loud and very real.And much of your desire you can match just through observa-
tion. Those 7 qualities, you observed those 7 qualities ÖÖyou match your desire. Three of them
you canít match through observation.
No problem. You donít observe those, you just imagine the other 3. So now you are vibrating
purely in harmony with your desire. When that happens, you evoke from those around you that
which matches your desire. And if they are really vibrationally opposed to you, they vibrate right
out of your experience.
Now your son is not going to do that. In other words your child will join you in that vibration. But
the question pointedly put to you isÖÖ Why do you think you are getting some of those 3
things?? It is because of your attention to them we promise you.
You all keep thinking that if somebodyís got a characteristic, and they are thrusting it at you. You
are just a victim that has to take it, and thatís what makes you want to make them stop it. Thatís
what makes you want to say ìClean up those 3 abhorrent characteristics, so that we can have a
better relationshipî And the thing that we really want you to hear isÖÖIf you are having it in
your experience, it is because you are vibrating it! And you are usually vibrating it through obser-
vation ,but it doesnít matter. As long as you are vibrating it ,its going to stay in your experience.
As soon as you clean up your vibration,your relationships will all take on that new framework too.
Guest So in other words I just need to imagine what it is that I want?
Abe Yes
Extracted from Abraham-Hicks tape G ñ4/27/96.