Day Twelve - Love

Morning Ritual:

Quote for the day:
EVOKING THE PERFECT MATE by Abraham Tape AB-17 Mating

The perfect mate is one that makes you feel good. To be the perfect mate, you make your partner
feel good. You do this by looking for the positive aspects in each other. You think you want to be
loved, but what you want is the feeling of love coming out of you. When the other evokes that
from you, that is why you feel loved.

You are wanting to interact with someone because you are wanting the feeling of love to be evoked
from you, and you are wanting a subject, or a target upon which to direct your love. You are
wanting the glorious deliciousness of the physical experience. You are wanting someone who is a
friend, someone to respond, someone who seeks adventure, someone who wants to laugh at the
things you are wanting to laugh at. You have launched long before today a very powerful creation.
Keep your eyes open for it, and stop being so guarded about it. Exaggerate, add emphasis, talk to
yourself everyday about what you are wanting. As you get up in the morning and beat on your
chest, say to yourself ìToday I am going to see evidence of the coming of my perfect mate. Today I
am going to look under every rock, around every corner, I am going to keep my eyes open for that
perfect mate. Today I am going to find, or at least get closer to that perfect mate.î Then you have
awakened your guidance system! You have stated what you want. Your guidance system is aware.

You walk into a room full of people, you feel yourself inspired to go and talk to that one, and you
say ìNot that one, that one doesnít look the way I want.î And now you are right back into the
arena of lack. That one may lead you to one who will lead you to one who will lead you to one
who will lead you to one. You cannot see the path that is before you. If you will follow the positive
emotion, you will very swiftly be drawn to them. You see, that other one is out there looking for
you! He is saying where is she, and you are saying where is he, and we are saying we will not play
cupid. Law of attraction does a very good job of that. As each of you focuses on what you are
wanting, the connection must be.

Mating is the same as co-creating. Co-creating is the same as soul creating. Identify what you
want, pay attention to what you feel, and you will be guided to that which you seek. Look for the
positive aspects in every one you see. As you see in another a quality that you donít want, and you
say ìNot that one, not that one.î You are closing a door that is keeping all from coming because a
critical attitude about them is keeping all of them away from you. As you begin to say ìPositive
aspect there, positive aspect thereî you attract to you the one that has all of those positive aspects.
In your pickiness, be a selective sifter, look for what you are wanting, donít guard yourself against
what you are not wanting. Never make the statement ìI donít want that one, I donít like that one.î
Make statements such as ìOoh, that is a nice one, ooh, I like the attitude there, that one is very
beautiful.î As you focus on positive aspects of others, even if they are already connected to an-
other, look for the positive aspects, and by doing that you attract that into your experience. Your
mate is very near you. We are talking in terms of time. Be expectant.