Record of a Friendship

(Ben Green) #1

shall be back in New York by the end of September. A breast operation
always means cancer, and since the removal of a breast does not touch
the rotting process in tissues and blood, the use of the accumulator is
indispensable to prevent reoccurrence if possible.
I would like to hear more about your vegeto-therapy experiences.
My baby is doing very well. My voice is going high only if I meet
stupid emotional-pest reactions and when I feel helpless to cope with
them. Else, I am known as one of the most patient of human beings.
But I can shout all right if necessary and if there are no other ways of
settling things. (If you think the father is impatient, just wait until you
meet the son. His voice is even higher than his father's when he gets
impatient. This is written by lIse allendorf! Reich.) Don't you think I
have shown tremendous patience in waiting for nearly 2 decades now for
people to understand the most simple thing in the world which I am
teaching.


Summerhill School
Festiniog, North Wales


My dear Reich,



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July 15, 1944

Many thanks for the photos. I take back what I said about your
being a dangerous father whose voice might give the kid fear... the
photo convinces me that he will be the danger, and I see a fearful father
hastening to obey his commands. He is a splendid kid, with most ex­
pressive eyes. All I get out of lIse's picture is a great pride in what she
is looking at. You are two lucky ones, and I hope I live long enough to
see Peter and watch his career.
Your query about lunacy means nothing to me, for I don't know
what is behind it. Of course a few Freudians dismiss you as meschugge
[crazy] but that sort of thing is a compliment from them.
I am veg-therring 4 girls and 4 boys, adolescent. Often I wish I could
run to ask your advice, but feel it is better that I can't. With a girl of 17
it goes easily and quickly, but with the others I am in the middle of
strong resistance, which brings in a difficulty. I am analyst AND head­
master. In spite of the fact that I am not a feared headmaster, I can see
the old difficulty arising. Suppose a boy has been stealing from me, or
ruining a workshop tool of mine. His resistance to my knowing it goes
over to everything. One boy of 14 sent to me two years ago as a bad

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