Record of a Friendship

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INTRODUCTION xvi
hunting"--or took exception to Reich's growing tendency to attach the
label of "red fascist" to any person or action of which he disapproved.
But these disputes were always ultimately set aside, as when, after an
increasingly discordant exchange, Neill writes that "all this dispute
between us never gets us anywhere. It just tires us and saddens us";· or
when Reich affectionately suggests that "two glasses of good whiskey
soda would suffice to clear up our disagreement." Only once, in the
autumn of 1956, did Reich allow suspicion to blind him to Neill's stub­
born loyalty. During the preceding summer Reich's son, Peter, had
stayed for a while at Summerhill. Some of his talks with Neill, when later
reported to Reich, led the latter to believe that finally Neill, too, had
failed him. Reich expressed his feelings of betrayal to a mutual friend.
This was more than even Neill could bear: "So our long friendship has
come to an end because you consider me unreliable"-ending his letter:
"Goodbye, Reich, and bless you." But the friendship did not end. Reich
disregarded the reproach and the farewell, only telling Neill not to
"worry," and a few weeks later begging him to "be patient, please, if I
keep silent or do not reply promptly. I am extremely busy." And Neill
responded, damning "this 3000 miles separation," and then , writing of
his concern at the turn events were taking: "Reich I love you. I cannot
bear to think of your being punished by an insane prison sentence. You
couldn't do it and you know it."
How right Neill was: though Reich had committed no crime, a few
months later he died of the punishment.
Sixteen years later, just before his own death in September 1973 ,
Neill summed up his feelings in his autobiography: "A great man had
died in vile captivity. I think that Reich will not come into his own as a
genius until at least three generations from now. I was most lucky to
know him and learn from him, and love him."
We too are fortunate that now, with the publication of this eloquent
record of their friendship, we can come to know these two extraordinary
men in their full humanity.
BEVERLEY R. PLACZEK


New York
December 1980
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