OCTOBER 23
“Why not” is a slogan for an interesting life.
—MASON COOLEYAt first our energy is absorbed in doing the necessary
things—making arrangements, speaking with those who
come to console us. After the immediate hubbub is over, we
are probably exhausted. Then, when some strength to do
“optional things” begins to come back, we probably return
to our conventional patterns and activities, glad for the se-
curity of “the usual.”
But our life has changed now, with the event of this loss.
Perhaps it is time to take the energy we poured into that
relationship (and often there was a lot of physical care) and
turn to some new thing. Think of it. Let your imagination
wander; poke around in the attic of your mind, where you’ve
stashed away some dreams. What New Thing might you
want to try?
Do you dare? Why not? Think of your loved one as
blessing your effort, smiling through the veil that separates
life from death, cheering you on—“Go ahead. Give it a try.
I dare you. You know I’d love to have you succeed. And
you may. This is the time!”
I will appropriate my loved one’s courage, and blessing, and dare
a New Thing.