Men are born to succeed,
not fail.
—Henry David Thoreau
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Keep the
Big Picture
in Mind
S
ometimes people spend too much time focusing on problems
instead of focusing on opportunities. You have to keep the big
picture in mind even when minding the details or your vision
could become micromanaged in an unnecessary way. I always try
to keep two wavelengths going at once, which prevents brain
cramps and reminds me that I’m destined for success. How do I
know this destiny? Because like Thoreau, I believe we are born to
succeed, not to fail. If I can believe it, you can believe it, too.
Here’s how. First of all, expect problems. Even problems can
be turned around to your advantage, and sometimes surprising
events can happen. When I had some financial problems back in
the 1990s, I remember debating with myself whether or not to at-
tend a black tie dinner at the Waldorf. I certainly didn’t feel like
celebrating anything or talking to anyone, but I got dressed, went
there, and as it turned out I was seated next to someone I really